Oh My God,I regret having met him!
There are charming guys, others are charming and intelligent.But there are those who are neither charming nor intelligent,though they seem at first look.But end up learning that they are pure misers.This is what befell me!
I met him a few weeks ago,and I must have been out of me…I gave him my number with no hesitation.A buddy saw me and came to us like”Hey,no,don’t give him your number,you do not even know him!” I judged that as his ‘jealous’ thing. I wish I had listened.
The guy called me the following day.We met and got to know each other.That’s when I realized that he is boring to death.
He seemed cool.He proposed a drikn at a very cool place,I loved It. We went further and had dinner together. We divided the meal cost(hi hi hi).But I had no problem with that really.
The next time we went out,he (as I came to learn) likes these chic places.This time we went to a touristic place. They do not have the best services………tourists will always go there anyway! I was late,really late(the african in me,or is it just kenyan?). He made a joke that I would pay for the drinks coz I was late.I laughed,at the end of the evening, I paid.
3rd meeting,drinks,as usual in his (wierd)chic places.The prizes are too high.When we get to pay around fifteen twenty euros euros for a glass of cocktail,while we know of places where we pay half for the same,with my kind of pocket………..its just not my thing!I was getting bored and wanted to leave.I yawn when am with him, I chew gum,non stop.I get bored to death. I took out my purse and he went like”I will invite you”……….funny gestures around his pockets,then”oh!Shit,I forgot my wallet”……….of course,silly,I will pay,as usual,that’s what you want,no?I thought to myself.
He proposed to see me the next day,for a movie……..because he had spent a lot of good time with me………I was tempted to say yes.I would let him pay,get in with him then sleep all through.Or excuse myself to the ladies then simply go to my place.But it is not brilliant.An entry to the movies is only six euros…………
Monsieur is still waiting for my call(I always call him,once or twice, he has sent me an sms,asking me to call him!) So unsexy the miser!
Am not bitter,at all, just astonished by some guys’ characters.
February 12, 2009 at 3:44 pm
Question. . . If you realised how boring he was after date number 1 why did you hook up again and again and again?
February 14, 2009 at 9:45 am
that guy is for throwing out, for real. delete his number, block it so that you don’t receive calls or texts from him… hopefully he will get the point and just leave you alone!
February 16, 2009 at 3:32 pm
@Sibbie:Ok,lets not exergerate things,I have met(seen)him only thrice.I repeated for these reasons,one he seemed mysterious and I so badly wanted to find out more;He was not the french cliché of romantic charming and stuff,despite the fact that he has lived in Paris all his life.This sounded exciting to me.Two,when I want to make friends,I have no limit,the cute and ugly, gay and straight,etc, so I did not hesitate till the day he went too far,as an exploiting miser.
And three,I was damn out of me then,I think, I should have resisted to seeing him.But I wanted to be responsible for my acts,and reasonable too.When I gave him my number,I knew he would call(not ask me to) then we would meet. But hey, we fall into all sorts of people in life,no?
February 16, 2009 at 3:33 pm
@Sybella:Oui!!!Throwing away is the term!
February 18, 2009 at 4:08 pm
you gave the guy too many chances – and he seems to have blundered in all of them
February 23, 2009 at 3:08 pm
@3N:He had gone to the thin air,till this past weekend, of course I no longer have anytging to toell him,so I do not reply to his text messages,and neither do I pick his calls.And it feels sooo good.
March 12, 2009 at 2:14 pm
It’s like a guy flashing you..that’s the end of it. Besides, if a guy asks me out..he pays. Am old fashioned like that.